I was always really close with my siblings but after my dad got sick we have had a lot of fights. No one can agree on the best way to pay for his medical expenses and there has been a lot of fights over money. Some of these have even ended up in court. This is very stressful for everyone. This blog has some tips on how to manage legal battles around elder care, especially when families cannot agree on the best treatment for elderly relatives. I hope it is helpful for other children, spouses, and carers of the elderly.